How to Happily Survive Marriage to a Russian Woman
Using women`s competitive nature
So, you are a single man, looking for a woman. You are looking really good, you are an interesting person, but still you have no success in finding yourself a girl! Why?! We'll try to guess the main reason and give you several words of advice about it in this article.
Many men repeat the same mistake, which is extremely cruel and dangerous. The simply try to work from inside; this means they try to become closer to a woman and become her friend. It is a common misconception that such technique can be a great help in creating close relationships with women. In fact, it usually does help â you are almost certain to become her close friend, but not a boyfriend. Why does this happen? You see, women divide men in only two categories: "potential boyfriendsâ? and "everyone elseâ? those, who use technique described above usually get stuck in "everyone elseâ? group. It is very hard to change her mind and graduate to "boyfriendâ? (at least in her eyes). If you really want to do that, let's see what should you do.
First of all, women are competitive. If you know this fact, you have a great tool and all trumps are in your hand! Try changing your attitude towards being not just a friend, but also a man. If you work somewhere, where is a lot of women, start acting like a "bad boyâ? (girls like this!). We don't mean you should change yourself, buy yourself a good-old "Harleyâ? and start acting like a jerk! Simply change your position and stop listening to these girls' problems; in parallel with that, become a little bit more aggressive. You will see, that in case of right approach to the problem, women around you will start changing their opinions about you.
If you did everything right, you may proceed to next step. This step is based on women's competitive nature. You know, girls are VERY competitive, so why don't you use this? Simply let them compete to get your attention and you will see how far this could go!
In other words, if you want to change your status from a "boy-friendâ? to "boyfriendâ?, try changing your approach to women and become that someone, who is a potential boyfriend in THEIR eyes, not in yours. You know, women always start serious relations with those men, whom they in a reflex action see as a potential "threatâ?. Make them see a "threatâ? in you, not a harmless man, who is only able to help by listening for all their problems!
Many men repeat the same mistake, which is extremely cruel and dangerous. The simply try to work from inside; this means they try to become closer to a woman and become her friend. It is a common misconception that such technique can be a great help in creating close relationships with women. In fact, it usually does help â you are almost certain to become her close friend, but not a boyfriend. Why does this happen? You see, women divide men in only two categories: "potential boyfriendsâ? and "everyone elseâ? those, who use technique described above usually get stuck in "everyone elseâ? group. It is very hard to change her mind and graduate to "boyfriendâ? (at least in her eyes). If you really want to do that, let's see what should you do.
First of all, women are competitive. If you know this fact, you have a great tool and all trumps are in your hand! Try changing your attitude towards being not just a friend, but also a man. If you work somewhere, where is a lot of women, start acting like a "bad boyâ? (girls like this!). We don't mean you should change yourself, buy yourself a good-old "Harleyâ? and start acting like a jerk! Simply change your position and stop listening to these girls' problems; in parallel with that, become a little bit more aggressive. You will see, that in case of right approach to the problem, women around you will start changing their opinions about you.
If you did everything right, you may proceed to next step. This step is based on women's competitive nature. You know, girls are VERY competitive, so why don't you use this? Simply let them compete to get your attention and you will see how far this could go!
In other words, if you want to change your status from a "boy-friendâ? to "boyfriendâ?, try changing your approach to women and become that someone, who is a potential boyfriend in THEIR eyes, not in yours. You know, women always start serious relations with those men, whom they in a reflex action see as a potential "threatâ?. Make them see a "threatâ? in you, not a harmless man, who is only able to help by listening for all their problems!
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