How to turn your girl-friend into girlfriend?
Let's imagine the following situation. You have a feminine friend, who has a boyfriend. You feel some warm feelings towards her and, to say even more, feel that you are falling in love with her. Believe us, such situations are really often nowadays and you are not lonely with that problem! Even if she already has a boyfriend, that is not the main difficulty. The main problem, in fact, is changing her status from girl-friend to girlfriend. Yes, only one dash, which separates these two words, and the whole abyss, which separates these words' meanings. So, let's try to change her way of thinking and your chances of having her close to you!
First of all, we have to see the difference between your current status and what you want to have. In fact, you are ALMOST like a real boyfriend, only without sex. The majority of girls treat their masculine friends as if they were boyfriends â they can ask you to lend some money, to fix her PC, to give her a ride somewhere. You see, girls don't really see the HUGE difference between a friend and a boyfriend, but this difference is really hard to get rid of! Women usually see two types of men: boyfriends and those, who aren't. Simple, don't you think so? Yes, it actually is, but you will face different problems while trying to change your own status from #2 to #1.
Even in case she is having serious troubles with her boyfriend, you will have to work VERY hard to take his place. First of all, you will have to get over your friendship. This is, in fact, the most difficult part. This will require a lot from you: you have to remember that in case you fail, things will never be the same again!
Help her to see that you are much better than her current boyfriend. In order to do this, try using such phrases: "You know, you deserve a better man!â? or "If I were him, I would never treat such a nice girl like you that way!â?. In case you see this technique can bring some benefits â go on with the next step.
Try making her see, that you CAN be a boyfriend. Now, at the moment, you are in the "someone elseâ? category and your aim is jumping into the category of boyfriends. Easy to say, but almost impossible to do, you say? Yes, it is hard to do, but you may at least try! Start acting like her boyfriend. Give her a call and say something like: "I don't give a care what and when you are going to do this evening â simply cancel that, because we are having a dinner!â?. You know, girl simply ADORE this kind of power, that's why you have a high chance of success!
All in all, we would like you to remember, that stealing someone's girl in much more easier thing than keeping your own. Simply follow our instructions, if you like, or invent your own methods and start using them. Simply remember, that even if the situation seems hopeless, you still have a chance of having this girl, so don't give up!