How to Happily Survive Marriage to a Russian Woman
Five rules for building a happy family
Being an essential part of our society, a family is something that is extremely hard to deal with, but there is nothing a man can do about it. Although there will always be problems appearing, some actions towards preventing them can (and must!) be taken. Here is a list of rules, which may help you in building a happy family:
1)Provide each other with as much pleasure as you can. Can there be a single thing, which would be easier than this? Although giving each other pleasure is simple and primitive, various problems occur from time to time and trouble partners. The best exercise for achieving this goal would be the following: you and your spouse write on a blank piece of paper two lists. The first one is about what should your partner do in order to give you pleasure and the other one is about pain. After that, simply exchange with these lists and read. Primitive, you say? It's effective! Extremely effective!
2)Create mutual friendship and love. "This can't be created; this comes and goesâ?, - you may say. And you would be 100% wrong, because only constant work over these things can guarantee you warm and friendly atmosphere inside your family. Try using such techniques, as exchanging pleasant compliments every day (by sending SMS and emails while working) or paying Special attention towards anniversaries. Don't have doubts about this technique's efficiency â simply try it and see the result!
3)Solve your problems peacefully. This means you should never use unfair methods while arguing or word fights. Learn to speak clearly and shortly, make your ideas easy-to-get and use "constructiveâ? criticism. All in all, try to do your best when applying your communicating skills.
4)Be honest. It's tremendously important for the good family atmosphere to practice open discussions, which can be used for saying everything that is in your soul. Several aims can be achieved by this shot! Such conversations will definitely make you and your spouse closer to each other and, what is more, help you in resolving difficult problems.
5)If you have a chance, turn towards your couple. This means not ignoring it when walking by, but, for example, giving him or her a sweet kiss or saying several worm words. A primitive action, but it is able to create wonders!
1)Provide each other with as much pleasure as you can. Can there be a single thing, which would be easier than this? Although giving each other pleasure is simple and primitive, various problems occur from time to time and trouble partners. The best exercise for achieving this goal would be the following: you and your spouse write on a blank piece of paper two lists. The first one is about what should your partner do in order to give you pleasure and the other one is about pain. After that, simply exchange with these lists and read. Primitive, you say? It's effective! Extremely effective!
2)Create mutual friendship and love. "This can't be created; this comes and goesâ?, - you may say. And you would be 100% wrong, because only constant work over these things can guarantee you warm and friendly atmosphere inside your family. Try using such techniques, as exchanging pleasant compliments every day (by sending SMS and emails while working) or paying Special attention towards anniversaries. Don't have doubts about this technique's efficiency â simply try it and see the result!
3)Solve your problems peacefully. This means you should never use unfair methods while arguing or word fights. Learn to speak clearly and shortly, make your ideas easy-to-get and use "constructiveâ? criticism. All in all, try to do your best when applying your communicating skills.
4)Be honest. It's tremendously important for the good family atmosphere to practice open discussions, which can be used for saying everything that is in your soul. Several aims can be achieved by this shot! Such conversations will definitely make you and your spouse closer to each other and, what is more, help you in resolving difficult problems.
5)If you have a chance, turn towards your couple. This means not ignoring it when walking by, but, for example, giving him or her a sweet kiss or saying several worm words. A primitive action, but it is able to create wonders!
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