Online Dating for Dummies
First date. How not to spoil it?
First dates are always thrilling events and a lot of various feelings are guaranteed for their participants. Here is our set of rules and advices for those, who want their first date to be ideal.
1) DON'T BE LATE! Getting there on time is the most important component of a good beginning. Although there is nothing special in coming in time, being late will definitely make a bad impression. If you have no chance of getting to the place on time, make just one call to that person and warn him or her about this mishap.
2) (For women) Try not to overdo your preparations. There are no doubts about the necessity of getting perfumed, but there is no guarantee that he will appreciate it if there's too much perfume and make-up used.
3) (For men) It's necessary to have a lot of small, but important things done. Clean fingernails, neat hair, fresh breath and dirt-free clothes usually create a good impression. What is more, women usually instantly notice if there's something wrong with these things.
4) It would be better if you would simply spend your first date in a café or restaurant, but not in a cinema or concert. The point of first date is getting known with your partner and this can be easily done in a quite cosy place.
5) Remember, that your first day shouldn't be full of events. These won't help you to find out a lot about this person.
6) (For men) Don't talk too much! It would be a good technique to listen to what she talks about; this will help you to find out a lot of new things about your date.
7) Find a common topic to talk about. The best decision would be to read some news about it in order to be totally prepared to good discussion.
8) Don't be a destructive speaker! If your date shares his or her ideas with you and you disagree with these, try not to throw them away at once, but offer your viewpoint or simply change the topic.
9) Be confident! A slight dither isn't a tragedy, but try to change it with a good dose of healthy excitement.
10) The main aim of your first date is having fun, so don't wait and enjoy it! Don't try to seem too serious and simply relax.
1) DON'T BE LATE! Getting there on time is the most important component of a good beginning. Although there is nothing special in coming in time, being late will definitely make a bad impression. If you have no chance of getting to the place on time, make just one call to that person and warn him or her about this mishap.
2) (For women) Try not to overdo your preparations. There are no doubts about the necessity of getting perfumed, but there is no guarantee that he will appreciate it if there's too much perfume and make-up used.
3) (For men) It's necessary to have a lot of small, but important things done. Clean fingernails, neat hair, fresh breath and dirt-free clothes usually create a good impression. What is more, women usually instantly notice if there's something wrong with these things.
4) It would be better if you would simply spend your first date in a café or restaurant, but not in a cinema or concert. The point of first date is getting known with your partner and this can be easily done in a quite cosy place.
5) Remember, that your first day shouldn't be full of events. These won't help you to find out a lot about this person.
6) (For men) Don't talk too much! It would be a good technique to listen to what she talks about; this will help you to find out a lot of new things about your date.
7) Find a common topic to talk about. The best decision would be to read some news about it in order to be totally prepared to good discussion.
8) Don't be a destructive speaker! If your date shares his or her ideas with you and you disagree with these, try not to throw them away at once, but offer your viewpoint or simply change the topic.
9) Be confident! A slight dither isn't a tragedy, but try to change it with a good dose of healthy excitement.
10) The main aim of your first date is having fun, so don't wait and enjoy it! Don't try to seem too serious and simply relax.
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